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NAP Parenting (often referred to as Peaceful Parenting) is a style of parenting that adheres to the Non-Aggression Principle.

The NAP is an ethical stance which asserts that “aggression” is inherently illegitimate or immoral. Aggression is defined as the initiation of force against persons or property, the threat of such, or fraud upon persons or their property.

We aim to make the case for adopting this moral framework, and then focus on discussing its applications within the family.

We invite you to submit comments and criticisms to all of our posts in hopes that we can better each other and the lives of all children through honest conversation.



The case for NAP Parenting (in one page)

Here you’ll find our ‘manifesto’, a condensed argument for the NAP and its use in the home. A good place to start for newcomers.



Recent Posts

How Forced Schooling Harms Children

More from Dr. Peter Gray. We disagree with Mr. Holt that gold-stars are somehow "petty and contemptible", we think rewarding children for hard work is just and essential to creating healthy habits. But we can definitely agree that forced schooling violates the child's right to ...
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Millions agree: Lying to children to get them to cry — Hilarious!

Kimmel is right, this is probably the first time they've ever earned anything, and yes it is a sacred thing. If you're first reaction to children crying is laughter, something is very wrong ...
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Pop Quiz: Can YOU explain WHY slavery is wrong?

We have been using the slavery analogy to support the validity of the Non-Aggression Principle. In a serious oversight by the writers here at NAP Parenting, we assumed that because that particular debate was over, we could use it as precedent to pursue the rights ...
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The Trauma of Secrecy

Can your child confide in you? Research shows that trauma kept secret is more damaging than trauma expressed (through writing or conversation). Children need to be able to tell us their secrets, and that comes from a trust we earn. Ask questions, listen deeply, and ...
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Circumcision’s Psychological Damage

Hopefully it goes without saying that when it comes to acts of physical aggression towards children, you wont find much more severe and socially accepted than circumcision ...
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What Is The Truth, Anyway?

Some Jehovah’s Witnesses came to my door and opened the conversation with, “What’s the most important gift you can give some one?” “Easy,” I thought. “The truth.” “Interesting,” the young woman said, “we haven’t heard that one before.” I can’t say I was genuinely surprised; ...
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The Passive-Aggressive Cycle or: How to Disapprove Without Bullying

Does your five-year-old run up and punch you in the gut instead of saying “Hello”? Does your daughter insist that she can only eat dinner while watching television? Do the cookies hidden on the top shelf disappear much quicker than you dole them out? We ...
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Talking to Your Child After You Yell. How Yelling Can Hurt, and How to Stop It

Some good tips from experts for anybody who yells at their children. Deep breathing, "I" statements. We find, as usual, the moral argument is the true antidote. It's wrong to yell at your kids, it's harmful to their health, and we don't have the right ...
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About

We are a small group of writers, educators, and parents who are dedicated to living and spreading the NAP in homes around the world.

This issue effects people of all races, genders, and socio-economic statuses. We’ve all been children, and everyone’s childhood greatly influences their adulthood. Imagine a generation raised without being yelled at, stolen from, and hit by the people they love and depend on. Fortunately, this is a movement that we can all affect today, because it starts at home and among the families we’re already connected to.

We need your help. Please join us in the current frontier of the age-old fight for basic human rights for all people. We’re fighting for the group that can not fight for themselves, and whose lives we have the most control over. Join the conversation! We need your best arguments (for and against), and most passionate public efforts to create the groundswell of popular opinion that ends the acceptance of aggression toward children for good.